Only when you are in the exact same position as someone then can you really and truly understand why a person did things in a particular manner or why a person did certain things. Recently I have come to realise this point. And I have come to really respect a senior whom I used to dislike. I really respect the way he managed to last despite all the circumstances and all the different people plus different points of views or opinions which he has to dealth with. 所谓：公说公有理，婆说婆有理。是非对错，又有谁能来判断？

People tend to make judgements, sometimes too fast too hurried. Doesnt help if they are opinion leaders, as things can be made worse easily with the slip of a tongue. Seriously, the mouth is a double-edged sword. I think suddenly I am overwhelmed with the way this society works even though I have already seen for myself. It just takes more than time to adapt and handle. Living is about growing up and maturing, I am doing so now.