Spare the rod and spoil the child. Enough of trying to think of things from all your perspectives.

Only lessons learnt the hard way are the ones that will really stay in the head and be reflected properly upon with ample thoughts and considerations.

Sorry seems the hardest word to say, you have to put down your pride and admit your mistakes. Shifting the blame away from oneself saves your pride but you will lose your respect in other people. Which is worse? You make the decision and then you live with the consequences.

The society is harsh and reality is cruel many a times. Learn fast and soon lest risk getting hurt in more ways than one when circumstances happen and things don't go your way which is more than often the case. Time to grow up and stand on your own feet, enough of baby-sitting, enough of tolerating, enough of accomodating...